Embracing Jealousy
You can be the moon and still be jealous of the stars.
~ Gary Allan
The Jealousy of Our Upbringing:
Growing up in a religious household, I learned that jealousy was a sin to be confessed and rejected. Perhaps you’ve encountered similar teachings.
Jealousy and envy are emotions that often elicit negative feelings within us. However, a different approach exists – one that involves understanding, growth, and transformation.
Rather than suppress jealousy, we can harness it as a tool for self-awareness and personal development. As I’ve matured, I’ve transitioned from jealousy into admiration. Still, this transition alone isn’t enough. These emotions can be stepping stones toward uncovering life’s purpose.
Coping with emotions, no matter their nature, is a gradual process that necessitates self-compassion, acceptance, and a willingness to learn and grow. Jealousy can seem stifling, breeding resentment. Yet, it’s not the result of being taught it’s wrong; rather, it highlights a perceived lack. It reflects our yearning for growth and enrichment.
Being Grateful AND Wanting More:
Likewise, we may have learned that desiring more and wanting more implies dissatisfaction with our current blessings. Remember the saying: “Be grateful for what you have.” Indeed, gratitude is vital. However, we can express gratitude while nurturing aspirations to achieve, create, contribute, and receive more. Desire can propel growth.
Yearning for more is a natural aspect of life. Instead of suppressing such emotions, we should explore them with curiosity. Delve into the triggers – the circumstances or people – behind these feelings. Do these emotions align with our desires? This introspection embarks on a journey of self-discovery.
Life is an experiment, transforming us into curious scientists of our feelings. Rather than judging ourselves for envying others, we should appreciate these individuals as catalysts for desires and possibilities. Their presence awakens aspirations we may not have recognized otherwise.
The challenge emerges in our belief in our capacity to realize these aspirations. Often, we deem ourselves incapable of achieving what others have. Yet, this is not true. Our envy can serve as a sign guiding us to explore new paths and chase our dreams.
Dreams Calling for More Life:
Dreams are seeds of potential awaiting nurturing. They exist because we can make them a reality. Attending to these dreams and their calls is crucial; neglecting them might result in unfulfilled potential leading to melancholy and stagnation.
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Next time envy arises, use it as a lesson. Reflect on why this emotion surfaces. This reflection can release feelings of lack and reveal new desires, like turning a frown into a smile. Remember, it’s acceptable to aspire for more. If you’re curious about realizing your dreams, join the program.
Don’t let jealousy remain a negative force. Embrace it as a vehicle for growth and self-exploration. Understand that wanting more is innate and healthy. Turn jealousy into curiosity, and envy into motivation.
Your dreams are attainable, and they can flourish into something remarkable.
Follow them, and live the life you love!
